The safety and enjoyment of shibari

Shibari, also known as Japanese rope bondage, is a form of erotic art that involves binding the body with ropes. It's gained popularity in recent years, but with any activity that involves physical restraint, it's important to prioritise safety and consent.

First and foremost, communication is key in shibari. It's essential that both the person being tied up (the "bottom") and the person tying them up (the "top") have a clear understanding of what is and isn't okay. This includes discussing any physical or emotional boundaries, as well as establishing a safeword that can be used to stop the scene if necessary.

It's also important for the top to be knowledgeable about proper rope techniques and have the necessary skills to safely bind their partner. This includes using proper knots, avoiding placing pressure on the throat or other sensitive areas, and regularly checking in on the bottom to make sure they're comfortable and not in any distress.

In addition to physical safety, it's important to prioritise emotional safety and consent. This means being respectful of your partner's boundaries and desires, and making sure that both parties are fully consenting and enthusiastic about the activity.

While shibari can be an incredibly intimate and enjoyable experience for both parties, it's important to remember that it's not for everyone. It's okay to not be interested in shibari or to decide that it's not something you want to pursue.

In conclusion, shibari can be a fun and enjoyable activity as long as it's approached with respect, communication, and a focus on safety. By prioritising consent and using proper techniques, both the top and bottom can have a fulfilling and enjoyable experience.